The First Action
||Part 2, Paradise Missed
||Part 3, Poetic Justice
||Part 4, Thumbs Up 7Up!
I <3 NY
||Part 6, Junior Prom
The Most Important Girl
||Part 8, Julie
||Part 9, Yesterday Sucked
||Part 10, Between Friends
||Part 11, Questions Answered
Art School Confidential
||Part 13, Virginity Lost
#1) Would you smile at a guy walking down the street that you
wouldn't want to approach you?
#2) Would you touch a guy during a conversation that you weren't
#3) Would you start up a conversation with a guy sitting next
to you if you weren't interested?
While I was
reading your Love Diares, I came across three questions
that you wanted answers to. . . Aww, answer three questions
to a man that's given me reading/masturbating material
for so long? Good deal. I hope that these questions
can help you sort out the minds of those ladies near
Would you smile at a guy walking down the street that
you wouldn't want to approach you? Answer:
No. I'd just look straight down. Generally, people smile
when they're interested, and if I wasn't, I'm not doing
anything to confuse being interested and not.
you touch a guy during a conversation that you weren't
interested in? Answer: If it were to give him a high five or engage
in a "thumb war," then maybe. Otherwise, no.
I can complete a conversation without making physical
you start up a conversation with a guy sitting next
to you if you weren't interested? Answer: If he
were wearing something of someone or something that
I liked, then I'd compliment him. I wouldn't, however,
make conversation with someone (Especially if I'm uninterested)
for no damn reason.
Bob is a
fucking sexy bitch.
Would you smile at a guy walking down the street that
you wouldn't want to approach you? Damn
straight I would. If they approach me, so whut. These
days, I dunt care who approaches meh. It's also rare
that they'll freak me out unless they fall into the
category of stalkah, then I'll be mean and say scram.
If they dunt, the beatin-bar makes it's first appearence.
But otherwise i'll be supah nice^_~.
Would you touch a guy during a conversation that you
weren't interested in? Dependin'
on what kinda convo. I frequently touch people I'm not
interested in if it'sa friendly jokey sorta convo, which
gives meh the cue to jump, grope, and annoy. If it's
serious, then forget it. Peoplez get the wrong ideas.
Would you start up a conversation with a guy sitting
next to you if you weren't interested? I'd prolly
do that, tuu. If I'm bored, I'll talk ta anywun. The
majority of people I talk ta, I'm nut interested in.
That jest makes things more complicated, and that's
no damn fun.
So, I saw
the little questionairre thingy on your love diaries,
and thought hey, why not - you not only look good in
horns but you seem to be a very decent human being.
Anything to lend a hand in figuring out us weird creatures
known as women.
a word of warning; My mental 'voice' seems to be so
male that, online, I'm usually assumed to be male, and
if it weren't for
the girly high voice and wide hips I have in meatspace,
it would doubtless carry on there, too. All the same...
#1) *Would you smile at a guy walking down the street
that you wouldn't want to approach you? Hell no.
If I think the guy is creepy, I'll make enough eye contact
to let him know that I know he's there and it would
be a Bad Idea to try anything. I will smile at guys
I don't think creepy, and if I give them a big goofy
grin it's a pretty sure sign I think they're hot.
#2) *Would you touch a guy during a conversation that
you weren't interested in? Again, hell no. I DO
have some big personal space issues to I'm not prone
to randomly touching *anyone*. This isn't to say I never
do it, but I would never touch someone I wasn't interested
in, or was interested in for only a very casual friendship,
during a conversation.
#3) *Would you start up a conversation with a guy sitting
next to you if you weren't interested? Probably
not, as small talk pisses me off. What I'm interested
in, however, is open to debate - might be the book you're
reading, or any body art, or something. However, I don't
care how cool your tats are if you look like someone
who might knife me (using the general 'you' here, of
to summerize: I'm not going to approach, or be friendly
to, or make much of an effort towards anyone I find
creepy or disgusting or boring or somehow hideous. I
can't make any claims for whether or not all women are
as logical, though.
is definitely key - something I've noticed and had to
work on myself. Something as simple as walking around
with good posture and my chin up, projecting that I'm
comfortable in my own skin, works wonders.
And as a
parting note: I've noticed most women have absolutely
horrid taste in partners and will often overlook the
intelligent, caring, good guys in favour for ones that...
that... well, hell if I know. The oens that give them
status, somehow, I guess, as a lot of perfectly intelligent
young woman go out with the stupidest excuses for human
beings... *ahem* But I digress. I know it isn't terribly
comforting, but a lot of times, it isn't so much oneself
as that other people can really be fucked up (I mean,
that whole "I can't go out with you, you're too good
a friend" thing - WTF? Going out with friends, one knows
what one is getting into, and they already know they
like the person - but somehow, some random jerk that
has the brains of a slug is somehow better. OKAY!).
is turning into a novel. Anyhow - best of luck to you,
sir, in finding a fulfilling relationship. You seem
to deserve it, and I hope you encounter and hook up
with someone who deserves you.
oh please, write more in your love diaries! I am aching
to know more. For example, how did you lose your virginity
(you did lose it, right)?
check back every day and still there are no new entries.
Will you write more if I answer your questions? You
see, the thing is, I1m a lesbian so my answers may not
help you much. But I1ll give it a try if it will increase
my chances of reading more incredibly witty prose about
your fascinating love life..
Would I smile at a guy on the street whom I wouldn't
want to approach? Yes, I would. In fact I always
do. But, I smile at most people on the street. Maybe
it1s different in New York.
Would I touch a guy in a conversation who I wasn't interested
in? No. Never.
Would I start up a conversation with a guy sitting next
to me if I wasn't interested? Again, no I would
not. I probably would not even notice that there was
a guy sitting next to me.
hope that helped. Thank you so much for your wonderful
site. You1ve made the world a better place.
Lesbian fan from Canada
Lauren Fox .